Tuesday 25 October 2011

In Case You Missed This Toronto Star Article!

Peaceful Canadian port thrives amid a Mexican drug war...............


About eight years ago, Burlington residents Julianne and Chisholm Lyons moved to a small village called Ajijic about an hour outside of Guadalajara. It is said to have one of the largest Canadian ex-pat communities in the world, with an estimated 8,000 Canucks. At 84, Chisholm is co-president of the Canadian Club. Julianne, 80, a former Etobicoke city councillor, is organizing a music festival featuring Canadian musicians.
Robyn Doolittle/Toronto Star
AJIJIC, MEXICO — Every inch of Julianne and Chisholm Lyons’ two-storey Mexican casa is adorned with mementos from their exotic travels. An antique door from Indonesia. Colourful photos of Thailand. Artwork from China. But tucked away in a little corner of their dining room is a keepsake from Canada: a framed photo of their old Burlington home, buried one foot in snow. “Just a little reminder that we live in paradise,” said 80-year-old Julianne, a former Etobicoke city councillor. “Not that we would forget it.” “Paradise” is not a word used by too many to describe Mexico these days, not with more than 40,000 deaths attributed to the country’s drug wars over the last five years. A couple of fatal shootings linked to organized crime happened just a few weeks ago in this otherwise charming lakeside village about an hour outside of Guadalajara on Lake Chapala. The violence seems far removed from the world of the Lyons, who moved to Ajijic eight years ago, lured by its cobblestone streets, gentle pace of life and authentic Mexican vibe. In fact, Ajijic has been luring snowbirds from the United States and Canada since the 1970s and is believed to be the largest concentrated community of expat Canadians in the world. The local Canadian Club estimates 8,000 Canucks — just over half of the village’s population — call Ajijic home most of the year. Like everyone in Ajijic, the Lyons are defensive about how Mexico is being portrayed around the world. A recent story that appeared in the Dallas Morning News, which suggested cartels are moving in on the Chapala area, has the entire village incensed. Those in this retirement community make the eyebrow-raising argument that the vast majority of Mexico is safer than Toronto. The Lyons’ home is in a gated corner of town, but most of the houses in Ajijic aren’t. Etobicoke resident Tom Gladney said a gate isn’t needed. “People have this very wrong perception of Mexico,” said Gladney, 70, a former executive with Eaton’s. “My son will call and say: ‘How are you doing down there in that third world country?’ and I’ll say: ‘Sorry, can’t talk to you right now. I’m going grocery shopping at Costco.’” Speaking en route to her morning yoga class, Torontonian Cece Girling, a charismatic former fashion businesswoman, said the cartel rumours are overblown. “A few years ago, yes some businesses were getting calls — give us money and we’ll protect you. But that happens. The expats are protected because, well, the drug cartels don’t speak English and the Spanish just hang up,” she said, making a left-hand turn at the new mostly English-language movie theatre. There are subtle signs of the Great White North everywhere in this community. The supermarket imports authentic maple syrup. There’s an English-language library with 25,000 books. Satellite television picks up Toronto news stations. A popular local pub hosts Hockey Night on Thursdays. (No Canadian beer on tap unfortunately.) There’s even a Wal-Mart. Every day here feels like late spring. Warm enough to swim — which is good since almost everyone has a pool — but cool enough to spend the entire day outside. Photos: Meet the expats in Ajijic, Mexico When 84-year-old Chisholm fell gravely ill with colon cancer, the couple didn’t consider for a moment heading back to Canada. The Lyons pay about $1,200 a year to be part of Mexico’s socialized health care, but to battle Chisholm’s cancer, they decided to use the private system. Between the X-rays, biopsies, MRIs and eight months of chemotherapy — which included a doctor driving from Guadalajara to Ajijic each week to administer the treatment — the total bill was just over $30,000. “The standard of care here is first-rate. The hospitals are incredible. The doctors are world class. I was very, very sick,” said Chisholm, a former corporate lawyer with an MBA from Harvard. His cancer is gone. The cost of real estate in the Chapala area had been steadily climbing until 2010. Then the Mexican drug war exploded. Safety fears combined with the American recession has ground the market to a standstill. Sales are down more than 25 per cent. It takes a certain kind of person to pick up and move to Mexico, so the cast of characters in Ajijic is predictably impressive. There are world-renowned architects, designers, and artists, high-powered lawyers, a fashion editor and an Olympic figure skater. Engineers, entrepreneurs and corporate executives. Most are retired and eager to redirect their talents. Donations from expats in Ajijic support about four orphanages, a school for deaf and disabled children, the Lake Chapala Red Cross, and various arts programs. Nicholas Favian, a bartender at Salt & Pepper tavern who commutes to Ajijic from Guadalajara every day, says the expats are good for the area. “The tourism is important for this area. They stimulate the economy. They go out more than locals and they tip more. A Canadian will go out four or five times a week. Locals will go out once a week,” said Favian. And so far, locals have not been shut out from buying homes. The cost of real estate is high for the elaborate villas favoured by expats, but typical Mexican homes are still affordable and are passed down through the generations. Because the cost of living is so much less, Canadians are able to afford luxuries they might not be able to at home. Mexican maids are paid about $1.50 (Canadian) an hour in Guadalajara. In Ajijic, expats pay about $5 an hour — still a fraction of the cost. In Ajijic, about $420,000 will get you three bedrooms, four baths, a pool with a waterfall, fireplace, purified water system and fully-equipped gourmet kitchen. For the Lyons, the only thing that’s missing in Mexico is their children. They have seven, plus four grandchildren. “All I can say is thank goodness for the Internet,” said Julianne. “And you know they’re getting close to retirement too. We’re not pushing it. We’re not even mentioning it, but — well — wouldn’t that be lovely.”

Saturday 22 October 2011

Animal Comparisons!

Don’t count your chickens before they hatch. If you lie down with dogs, you’ll wake up with fleas. What’s good for the goose is good for the gander...

A dirty rat. A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.  Don’t look a gift horse in the mouth. Don’t make a mountain out of a mole hill.. All bark and no bite.

 Stubborn as a mule. When the cows come home. It’s raining cats and dog-  You can’t teach an old dog new tricks. As little as a tad pole .Quiet as a mouse. Slippery as an eel. Slow as a turtle.  Sly as a fox.  Bats in the belfry. Blind as a bat. An old bat.  Like water off a duck’s back.

Only mad dogs and Englishmen go out in the noon-day sun. So hungry I could eat a horse.   A fly on the wall. The wise old owl. Silly as a goose. Strong as an ox. Gentle as a lamb.  Proud as a peacock. Liike a bull in a china shop. The early bird gets the worm.   Just ducky.   Happy as a clam . A memory like an elephant.  A cat on a hot tin roof.  Let sleeping dogs lay.  More fun than a barrel of monkeys.  A social butterfly.

Raining cats and dogs. A frog in my throat. Off like a herd of turtles. Don’t want to hear another peep out of you. When pigs fly. I smell a rat -  Crows Feet -  Pigheaded.  I was buffaloed. Snug as a bug in a rug. An eager beaver. 

It's funny how often we compare ourselves or others to animals...........these are a few that come to mind..........
Cheers!! 


How Old is Too Old to Move to Mexico............an inspiring story

A Heartwarming Story from one of our local writers!  I hope you enjoy reading it as much as I did.  It just goes to show, Attitude is Everything!!
 
How Old Is Too Old To Move To Mexico?
By Bob Dietz

old peopleMy 91-year-old father, Ray, sold his Florida condo and asked to move to the La Floresta Convalescent Home. It is seven blocks from my home in Ajijic. This is the story of that transition.
I flew to Gainesville, Florida to pick up a man who had consolidated all of his worldly possessions into a bank account and one checked bag. That’s a lesson in reverse materialism. Our departure day featured tornado warnings and no plane was allowed to fly. We patiently waited in this snack bar airport for eight hours. My dad and I, and his trusty walker, stuck in airport hell. I’m waiting for complaints. But not one was uttered from his now parched lips. He seems to enjoy this unavoidable delay. After the TSA groping, eight hours of waiting provides a perfect opportunity for a father and son to do a lot of catching up.
Four bags of peanuts, one hamburger and three sodas later, the skies cleared and we apprehensively boarded the aircraft. He’s excited, but looks spent. But wait, is that the voice of an angel I hear? It’s the strawberry blond stewardess asking for volunteers to unbuckle, deplane, and be regally rewarded to help solve what has become an overbooking situation. This is going to be a test for him for sure. Just how much adventurous spirit does he have? Since I had no way to measure that, I simply said paradise looks better in the daylight. It can wait a day.
So we dragged our disappointed bodies back into the airport and stood in line for another hour with two nurses who shared our plight, and waited to be compensated. After spending the entire day in anticipation of his first flight since being in a World War II military plane 72 years ago, our progress is only fifty feet closer to Guadalajara. But still no complaint. Does this man have patient Mexican blood in his veins? He leans over to tell me that the two nurses want us to join them for dinner at the hotel restaurant. O.K. now tell me you’ve been on a double date with your father? How do I explain this to my wife? Yeah honey, I couldn’t help it, my father was just a bad influence. Why do I keep visualizing Rickey Ricardo saying, “Lucy ju got sum splainin to do.”
After a very enjoyable dinner with our escorts and repeated assurances that the $400 each, gorgeous hotel suite and dinner was complimentary, he just floored me. He whispered, “ If the airline offers you this again tomorrow take it.” This isn’t aviation hell, he`s having a great time. What happened to the North American rush, rush, don`t let anything get in my way? Has this gringo achieved a more laid-back Mexican attitude before we’ve even made an approach landing on Mexican soil?
Fifteen minutes after we were airborne, he asked me,” How does the pilot put the brakes on and stop the plane in midair?” What? We are flying at 600 miles per hour. He thought we were sitting still in midair. I guess avionics have greatly improved since World War II.
The retirement home had permitted us to paint and decorate his pool view room prior to his arrival. So he was pleased upon seeing his new digs. The love and care of the management and staff has to be experienced to be truly appreciated. In his first three weeks in Mexico, he reversed most of the ill effects of self-neglect. The cans and microwave diet was replaced with fresh food prepared by a loving cook. His ankle swelling disappeared in one week. Yeah, dad you can stop taking the Prilosec, heartburn medicine you’ve taken for three years too. The expectations of daily showering and clothes changes was instituted by the staff. A wonderful, and caring doctor injected some medicine into his hip joint and he parked the walker and started using just a cane.
Even in Mexico, where ingenuity is highly regarded, his pants with the big yellow paper clip in place of the broken zipper, will not be considered stylish. New pants, a successful trip to the dentist and optician and he has completed a makeover that even Oprah’s producers would envy. How did all this happen so efficiently? Didn’t his age hamper things? No, it was all his attitude. It seems attitude is more important than age. I saw him even reach for the hot sauce yesterday.
Dad, you are one cool gringo and even though I’ve lived here three years, thanks for teaching me to be more Mexican. Did we answer the question of how old is too old to move to Mexico? Maybe not, but we now know the bar has been raised to north of 91 years old!!

A really good story............
Now, how about you?  Are you ready to experience a new life in a great new place??  We are only here on this planet for a short time, what are you waiting for?  Maybe this posting just might inspire you to take the leap.  Hope to see you soon,
Lori

Pan Am Games Standings

Canadian athletes had their best day yesterday during the 16th Pan American Games, winning five gold medals to take their overall tally to 14. Canada has 45 medals in total and is now third in the rankings behind the United States and Brazil.

Chapala falls into the Pan American spotlight this week during four days of water ski competition at the Boca Laguna Ski Club.   The Boca Laguna Ski Club is located just 10 minutes from our door.  The Waterski Event takes place all  weekend long. We tried to get tickets but they were sold out.  Guess we waited a little too long!

Here are the results so far.............Canada is doing great - in third place.  USA first, Brazil, Canada, Mexico.  These games have brought a much needed boost to the economy here.  We've watched over the past month the many improvments to the area.  Highways are clean of refuse, new lines have been painted, new gardens planted in the central area of Chapala.  The little area looks amazing!
Below is a chart of the medal standings as of yesterday. 


Friday 21 October 2011

Day of The Dead Celebrations in Mexico

More than 500 years ago, when the Spanish Conquistadors landed in what is now Mexico, they encountered natives practicing a ritual that seemed to mock death.

It was a ritual the indigenous people had been practicing at least 3,000 years. A ritual the Spaniards would try unsuccessfully to eradicate.
A ritual known today as Día de los Muertos, or Day of the Dead.

In rural Mexico, people visit the cemetery where their loved ones are buried. They decorate gravesites with marigold flowers and candles. They bring toys for dead children and bottles of tequila to adults. They sit on picnic blankets next to gravesites and eat the favorite food of their loved ones.

Today, people don wooden skull masks called calacas and dance in honor of their deceased relatives. The wooden skulls are also placed on altars that are dedicated to the dead. Sugar skulls, made with the names of the dead person on the forehead, are eaten by a relative or friend.

The Aztecs and other Meso-American civilizations kept skulls as trophies and displayed them during the ritual. The skulls were used to symbolize death and rebirth.
The skulls were used to honor the dead, whom the Aztecs  civilization believed came back to visit during the monthlong ritual.
Unlike the Spaniards, who viewed death as the end of life, the natives viewed it as the continuation of life. Instead of fearing death, they embraced it. To them, life was a dream and only in death did they become truly awake.
The Spaniards considered the ritual to be sacrilegious. They perceived the indigenous people to be barbaric and pagan.
In their attempts to convert them to Catholicism, the Spaniards tried to kill the ritual.
But like the old Aztec spirits, the ritual refused to die.
To make the ritual more Christian, the Spaniards moved it so it coincided with All Saints' Day and All Souls' Day (Nov. 1 and 2), which is when it is celebrated today. The goddess, known as "Lady of the Dead," was believed to have died at birth.
Here in Mexico, the towns come alive through this celebration.  Families decorate their homes and erect alters.  Family members gather and pay homage to those they have lost.  As always in Mexico food plays an important part - with the favourite foods of the deceased prepared by loved ones and eaten in their honor.  Along the local roads and highways, crosses are already placed for those that have died in car accidents.  The local shops are filled with Day of The Dead statues and trinkets. 
It's really a very stange tradition - kind of spooky to us newbies!  But the Mexicans being so devoted to this long standing tradition enjoy yet "another fiesta!"
The picture below is an example of a decorative alter in the homes............

Monday 17 October 2011

A "Guiness" Anyone??

We decided to head to Costco in Guadaljara a couple of Sunday's ago.  Upon arriving home we see a little puppy sitting outside our front gate.  The little dog was apparently starving, you could easily see her rib bones poking through her skin.  We took out a bowl of food and water and she immediately wolfed it down as if she hadn't eaten in days.  We left her outside the gate to see if she would wander off.
No way, she stayed for a couple of hours with her little head poked through our gate crying to come into our yard.  We had company coming that afternoon for dinner so Greg put her in the car and took her to our local vet.  We asked our vet, Dr. Pepe if he would check her over, give her her shots, de flea her and keep her overnight.  Pepe agreed and we promised to return the next morning.  When our friends were here for dinner we told them about the little pup hoping they may want to take her in.  Marty then proceeded to tell us that she would like to take our black cocker Bella - that she had a little black cocker when she was growing up and would love to have her.  Marty & Wes asked us to consider it as they have a cocker spaniel and she needed the companionship. 
Anyways, the next morning we returned to Dr. Pepe's to see the little pup.  Pepe told us that she was a little 4 month old Rotti mix.  He thought she would be a medium size dog.  Greg and I had spent the previous evening discussing the options for this poor pup.  There were really one two options.  The first was to keep her.  The second was to take her to one of the local shelters and see if  she could find a good home.  After checking with a few of the shelters we found that there were so many dogs like her that simly could not find homes.  We were in a quandry as to what to do - we simply could not take her to the shelter.    So, we brought her home and thought we would see how it went.  Our dogs seemed fine with her presence - not too many problems.  So, drag out the crate!  Our friends returned after a few days for yet another visit.  This time they pleaded with us to give them Bella.  With 6 dogs, it was too much for us.  We didn't want to give them Bella but Marty said........" Please give us Bella, this way both dogs have good homes".
Since we live next door to M&W and would see Bella all the time, we finally agreed.
So, meet "Guiness"....  She has a lovely dispositon, friendly and loving and in time she will be a perfect little watchdog. 
 

Friday 14 October 2011

A Gecko in My Dishwasher!

There is a little gecko that has taken up residence in our dishwasher.  The first time I saw him was quite a few weeks ago.  As I opened the dishwasher door to put in a dish I was startled when the little guy was running around inside.  I quickly closed the door and called for Greg!  When we opened it again, he was gone.  We thought that was the end of it. 
Yesterday some weeks later, I again opened the door and there he was again!  This time he ran out and crawled up the outside of the door and ran inside the vents.  We then realized that he was living inside the dishwasher door - in between the door panels.
We've decided to let him stay!  I guess we really are adapting to this strange new place!

Saturday 8 October 2011

Thanksgiving in Mexico

It seems somewhat strange to us ................it's fall and the leaves are falling off some of our trees here.  The mountains are coloured in yellows and orange wildflowers and are beautiful as I mentioned in my previous post.  It's Thanksgiving Weekend and I must admit, I am  feeling a little homesick.  This is the first time in almost 6 months............I am thinking about our family and it is quite strange not to be home for this favourite family holiday.  Memories of Black Lake, the great family times, the beautiful colour of Northern Ontario.  On the other hand, it is wonderful here to be able to sit outdoors in our shorts and t-shirts under the beautiful blue clear skys.  Today I am cooking a turkey, green beans and mushroom soup casserole etc. for Greg and I.  On Monday we are going to one of the local restaurants - they are hosting a Canadian Thanksgiving Event -  will be a great way to meet  some fellow Canucks!
I am thankful for many things this year.  First and foremost - I am thankful for our wonderful children and grandchildren...............our family back home.  I'm also thankful for the wonderful life we have here in Mexico and for the good friends we have made here.   The peacefulness and beauty of all that surrounds us  everyday.  Greg and I feel very fortunate to be able to be here at this time in our lives.  Every day a new adventure in this foreign country.  We are adapting well to our new environment.  I am very much looking forward to my visit home in November.  I just hope the snow holds off!
Have a Wonderul Thanksgiving, with all our love.
xoxox